We live in a world that treats multitasking like a badge of honour. And if that’s true, most mums deserve medals. You’re unloading the dishwasher with a baby on your hip, answering a text with your pinky, and mentally planning dinner while a toddler yells “Muuuuum” for the fifteenth time. Sound familiar?
But Mary? Mary moved differently. She wasn’t checking her scroll while half-listening. She wasn’t rushing through moments to get to the next thing. She was with Jesus—fully. Present. Attentive. Calm.
This post isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present—in short, sacred doses. Let’s explore how we can parent like Mary… even if the floor’s sticky and someone’s crying over a banana.
1. Put the Phone Down (Just for 10 Minutes)
“His mother treasured all these things in her heart.” – Luke 2:51
Mary didn’t rush through moments with Jesus. She noticed. She absorbed. She was fully there—heart, mind, and spirit. No distractions. Just presence.
How to try it: Set a 10-minute timer. Put your phone away. Sit beside your child and do something together—read, play, snuggle. Ten minutes of your full attention will speak louder than a whole day of half-listening.
2. Make Eye Contact
“Blessed are you among women!” – Luke 1:42
When Elizabeth greeted Mary, it was face-to-face, with full recognition. Mary’s whole life invited real presence—connection that said: I see you, and I’m with you.
How to try it: Instead of half-looking while multitasking, pause. Kneel or sit. Make eye contact when your child speaks. It tells them: You are important. I want to see you clearly.
3. Sit With, Not Just Do For
“She wrapped Him in cloths and laid Him in a manger.” – Luke 2:7
Mary didn’t outsource the care of Jesus. She held Him. Fed Him. Stayed close, even in the humblest of settings. Her love was embodied and near.
How to try it: Instead of hovering while managing a dozen things, sit with your child during simple moments—drawing, building, snack time. You’re not just getting things done; you’re being with them.
4. Name the Moment
“The child’s father and mother marvelled at what was said about Him.” – Luke 2:33
Mary was attentive to what was happening in the moment. She didn’t let awe pass by—she noticed it and treasured it. Her attentiveness turned daily life into sacred reflection.
How to try it: Say aloud what’s lovely:
- “I love spending time with you.”
- “You’re a joy to be around.”
Naming the moment teaches your child to treasure it too.
5. Reflect at the End of the Day
“His mother treasured all these things.” – Luke 2:51
Mary ended her days not by tallying productivity, but by pondering love. She held onto the meaningful moments and made space for reflection.
How to try it: Before bedtime, ask simple questions like:
- “What made you smile today?”
- “When did you feel brave or kind?”
These little moments build emotional connection—and form a rhythm of gratitude and grace.
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